Friday, 20 December 2013

Association Between Forgiveness and Unforgiveness, and Health and Disease

This is my old resume assignment when I was in senior high school
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Forgiveness, Unforgiveness, Health, and Disease

       There are some association between forgiveness and unforgiveness, and health and disease. Firstly, unforgiveness is defined as stress response fostered into negative emotions through rumination. However, unforgiveness is obviously different from the immediate emotional response to a perceived injustice which makes people who experiences offense cannot be assumed as suffers unforgiveness. On the other hand, forgiveness is known as the reduction of unforgiveness by reducing negative emotions while increasing positive response. Those conditions are closely related to health and disease assumed by some hypotheses that will be explained on further notions as follow.

(1)   Unforgiveness is associated with health risks
Health problems are perceived as the manner similar to chronic stress. In a short term, unforgiveness shows the increase of negative emotions intensively as well as the psychological responses. When blood chemistry is getting higher, the case closed to unforgiveness becomes problematic. Moreover, revealing the psychological area of unforgiveness including range, frequency, duration, and intensity related to health and disease needs intensive monitoring so that consequences of severe trauma can be upheld. Besides, the core of unforgiveness (e.g., anger, hostility, blame, fear, etc.) is well known as the emotions linked to health risks for it leads to a sense of mistreatment which is harmful for blood pressure. 

Obviously, some identified behaviors of unforgiveness are causing disease since one of the results is autonomic nervous system hyper arousal suffered by a person who gets severe unforgiveness. Intuitively, unforgiveness leads someone to make a distance with others, affect relationships, create vulnerable social contact, and loose integrity. Therefore, it is reasonable that some behaviors of unforgiveness will create social isolation and endangered health. However, some findings show that not all core of forgiveness such as anger and hostility caused health problem in the ongoing recognition since the definition, differentiation, and measurement of unforgiveness are still blurred. Therefore, people need to be concerned on what border they use to blame unforgiveness facing the impact of reducing unforgiveness and promoting forgiveness to make sure that they are not being misled.

(2)   Positive states that are characteristics of forgiveness have health benefits beyond the associations with the reduction of unforgiveness
The core of forgiveness as it brings negative emotions needs to be not only reduced, but also changed into positive emotions to get a better health. The reduction of negative emotion can be started through the management of time and self control by means of having positive thought that will affect health. Some researchers have had already conducted to collect the evidences of forgiveness impact. One of them enables to show tremendous findings that forgiveness will continuously increase Immunoglobulin A and stabilize the blood pressure and skin conductance. 

(3)   Forgiveness intervention product change in health and disease outcomes when evaluated with randomized trials
The research conducted by Waltman was already evaluated and examined by some further and similar researches toward patients of heart diseases. The examination held for the coronary artery disease which is measured by checking myocardial perfusion, heart rate, blood pressure, and undergoing nuclear heart scan. Waltman examined heart diseases by using pretest, follow-up checking, and posttest. Unfortunately, after some researches had done, the setting of accurate indicators to invent the assessment toward the relationship between unforgiveness and forgiveness, and health and disease still need to be conducted. Therefore, we do wish that the future intervention will get better.

Each case needs to be solved. To open the path of further intervention, we need to provide some solutions and arrange research direction to make it in line with this area.

1)   Construct Refinement And Measurement
Beside the different definitions of forgiveness and unforgiveness existed, the current assessment and method applied to the researches are also vary. These conditions lead the confusion toward further invention. In short, better understanding the nature as well as the extent of negative and positive states is important to the future of forgiveness research.

2)   Indirect Models
The advanced knowledge must be mastered on how the natural history of both forgiveness and unforgiveness. Therefore, the model of approach which is closely fitted to the research conducted is interpersonal approach to get into personal stimulus. In addition, meditational models of various forms should be tested (e.g., unforgiveness-substance use-illness or optimism-forgiveness-related positive affect-health outcome).   

3)   Long Term Longitudinal Studies
It clarifies the typical course of harmful physiological states reacted to unforgiveness. The long-term health risks associated with dispositional unforgiveness need to be documented. The potentially bidirectional, if not multidirectional, nature of the illness-unforgiveness relationship should be explored. The unique health effects of unforgiveness reduction and forgiveness need to be clarified. The long-term health impacts of forgiveness interventions should be tracked. The logistical and financial burdens of such studies are great, but so might be the rewards.

Some recommendations are provided to avoid overstating claims about nature of the forgiveness-health association after the providing plausible links that has been elaborated. First, forgiveness has to be stated as the right path of unforgiveness reduction because the means of other paths deserve more research attention. Second, if contraindicated forgiveness occurs, then further invention will be known as a form of “premature forgiveness”. Third, the practice of forgiveness research has to be nearly connected to the cultural bound since the multicultural meaning of forgiveness is now poorly understood. Last, the use of forgiveness as the reduction of unforgiveness needs a kind of balancing toward the relationship between patients and doctors to reduce a tendency of being offended and the implication of grudge harboring in the process of examining this area.

We need to emphasize that this chapter focuses on forgiveness and unforgiveness as proximal to health outcomes. However, given prevailing proximal and causal perspective of almost all empirical studies, the more distal and indirect relationships linking forgiveness and health are sorely in need of study. Another important area of future forgiveness research and application is the recognition and treatment of unforgiveness. For example, U.S. Institute of Medicine (2000) estimates that 44,000-98,000 Americans die each year because of medical errors, and many more are non-fatally injured and disabled. The stress of unforgiveness in these contexts may exacerbate the already compromised health in surviving patients, may add additional burdens to family system already under stress, and may impact the health and professional functioning of the responsible health care providers.   


       In a nutshell, current work linking unforgiveness and forgiveness to short term of both physiological and psychological variable provides some plausible hypotheses, yet not concludes the accurate evidences of related link between emotions and health. Even if the invention in need is not yet conducted, we believe that the more precise construct definition and measurement, more fine-grained and long-term assessment schedules, the more advance our understanding toward links related to this area will be. 

Thursday, 12 December 2013

Love Story

This is my own narrative text that i had been written when i was in Senior High School
Hope you like it guys

LOVE STORY
           
Jane was a student at University of  Malang actually at english department  who calm, patience and smart girl. She was not from rich family but she was from poor family with many problems happened. Different with Justin, he was smart and rich boy at the same university with Jane. At the university Jane have best friend called Jeniffer, she is smart, rich and beautiful girl.

That day was first day after she had an orientation. That day she met girl at the same university with her called Jeniffer who lecturer's daughter. She tried to acquainted with her.

“Excuse me, my name is Jane. Could you tell me where is the english lecture hall?” Jane said.
“My name is Jeniffer, english lecture hall is at the beside library and canteen, are you at that department?”, Jeniffer answered.
“Yes, I am”, Jane answered.
“Me too. So we are at the same department!”, Jeniffer said.
“Nice to know you”, Jane said.
“Nice to know you too and let’s go to the class!”, Jeniffer said.

And that day they were become best friend and always together. At the lecture hall they met new friends and unexpected Justin handsome boy who adoration every girls at the university an affront Jane and Jeniffer.

After they were finished their class, they went to mall just looking for new fashion style. At the mall they met Justin, their new friend at the university. With Jeniffer’s braveness she tried to acquainted with him.

“Excuse me, my name is Jeniffer, I’m your new friend in english department. And this is my friend call her Jane”, Jeniffer said.
“Oh, yeah. My name is Justin. Nice to know you”, Justin answered.
“What are you doing here?”, Jeniffer said.
“I’m just need some fresh air, by the way where do you live?”, Justin asked.
“Oh, I live at Kapt. Piere Tendean number 15”,  Jeniffer answered.
“What about you Jane? Why you keep silent?”, Justin said.
“Hmmm, What?”, Jane said.
“I said where do you live?”, Justin replied.
“I live at Panglima Sudirman number 9”, Jane answered.
“What about you Justin?”, Jeniffer said.
“I live at Panglima Sudirman number 27”, Justin answered.
“So, you and Jane live at Panglima Sudirman”, Jeniffer said.
“I think so”, Justin said.
“By the way we have to go home, see you later Justin”, Jeniffer said.
“See you later”, Justin said.

Getting home Jane immediately take a bath and after she was take a bath she said to herself
“What I feel to him?  Am I loves him?”.

Since it was Jane felt that she was fall in love to Justin but she never said it.

In the other side Jeniffer has same feel like Jane. And they never talked about it.

Two semesters passed, they were still best friend but only one secret which they were hide each other that they fell in love with same boy.

One evening, Jane saw Justin and Jeniffer was hang out and looking for a restaurant. And Jane thought that every day Justin and Jeniffer were get closer. She came home with broken heart because she felt that Justin and Jeniffer were ideal companion.

The next day Jane went to the university. Suddenly, Jeniffer visited upon to Jane and said that the night before Justin was amatory to her.

“Hi, Jane, How do you do? Why your face look so sad? What happen to you? Are you OK?” Jenifffer said.
“Oh, No I’m OK!” Jane answered.
“I’ll tell you the best news today. The best news is Justin was amatory to me yesterday!” Jeniffer said with cheerful expression.
“Hmmm, What, Oh,,, I mean that’s a good news congratulation! I hope you can happy with Justin”, Jane said with hide her sorrow.
“Thank’s Jane, you are always be my best friend forever!”, Jeniffer said and immediately leave Jane.

Suddenly Jane’s heart was broken into pieces and immediately she went to bath room and cried there.

Since it was she felt that she haven’t a spark of life and completely useless.

Went home with cried Jane’s mother knew that her daughter cried because of love. And her mother said.

“Jane, my daughter don’t cry, I’m sure that you can solve this problem quickly!”, her mother said.

Long time passed after her mother advised her to approve everything that happened to her, she could approve that Jeniffer was a better girl who checked up with Justin than her.

One morning she went to campus to met Jeniffer and Justin and she said
“I hope your love couldn’t separate forever until you and Justin were getting married”.

After she said that, she immediately came home and said to herself that


“Love was comfortable if someone who we love can live happily even without us”.

Wednesday, 27 November 2013

The Importance of English Language

I am an Indonesian


You know that I am one of student at Jember University. I take The Faculty of Teacher Training and Education, especially at English Department

So, I want to tell you about The Importance of English Language nowadays


Why English Language is Important for us ?

There are many reasons to answer that question :

1.      1.  Access for Knowledge

In the globalized nature, there are a lot of media, such as internet, television, and pers give us unlimited access for knowlwdge about our favorite subject. But, the problem is only one, this knowledge mostly using English language.

For examples, websites in internet. There are more than one billion information pages. Very wonderful that only study one language you can access every knowledge in internet. Books about anything for all over the world. Books for a variety of writers, and books that translated from another language. You can read it in English language.

2.      2.  Wide Communication

English commonly called “ Language of Communication ” Why ? Because every people all over the world looks like agreed to use English to talk one another.

Almost one billion people ingin the world speak English and one billion another study about how to speak English. And almost for all International Conference and International Competition held using English language, such as International Olympiad, UNESCO Conference, etc.

3.    3.  Enjoying Art

English language make possible for us feel many culture in the world without limit. With good knowledge about English, we can do amazing things. Such as, read every famous books that write ingin English language, watching movies with English language, more enjoying English musics because understang the meaning, etc.

4.    4.  English Language Easy for Studied

English language not only most benefit language in the world, but also easier language for studied and used.




Conclusion

I think that English Language is so vitally important because it is spoken in so many parts of the world.  Businesses, educational domains, academic domains, and even realms that deal with security all use English as a language of communication.  In a practical sense, one could survive without English, but with the globalized nature of the world and commerce, knowledge of English is quite essential.

English language is very important because where ever you go as long as you can speak English you can survive. Maybe some people say that other countries do not speak the language but I still believe that as long as you are equip with this language you can tour around the world. This is not to say that other languages do not possess the same amount of introspection and talent.  Far from it. The knowledge of English could help to open many professional and literary doors.

That’s will help us to communicate or convey the message while writing. Being proficient in English shows that you are educated and you can communicate well Knowledge is the key and once you have it no one can take it away from you ”.


:)

My Own Recount Text

A month ago, I arrived in Jember as a freshman. That was my first time I will stay for a long time without my family. I thought that I should have more discipline than before. 

When PK2 started, I pride to myself and thanked to Allah that I still had time to study in university. The orientation of freshman at Jember University had been finished. 

In Jember, I live at Kalimantan X number 101-103 that I called PPM Syafi’ur Rahman. In PPM, there were orientation of freshman too. It started at 4.00 p.m. All the freshman who lived in PPM joined there. And there was a man who just arrived that evening at PPM. 

My other freshman friends said that my face had same face with that new guy. I stared at him and tried to find out whether it is right or not. And I told them that we did not had same face. The following day was outbond time. And that day all of us were divided into 6 groups, and I was in group 4 with that new guy. 

When time break, my friends said that we had same eyebrow, nose, lips. But, until now I still could not find which part of my face that have same part of his face. It was funniest thing which I ever felt that I had twin but in different gender.

It's not serious. We are friends

Thank you. 




Here we are, Generation 2013 of PPM Syafi'ur Rohman 




I wear flower veil, with my lovely friend named Pathrisia

This is Me. Raras

My name is Raras Oka Anggana. Everybody who know me since I was a child called me Raras, while my friends called me Oka. I was born in Lumajang, 17 years and 11 months ago. Exactly, I was born on September 27th, 1995. 

Now, I am one of students at Jember University. At Jember University, I choose the Faculty Of Teaching Learning and Education  in English Department. 



I came from Lumajang, and I live at Jalan Kali Mujur number 1 Lumajang. But now, I live at Kalimantan X number 101-103 Jember. 

Everybody love their family, and so do I. My father is a humble person who is inspiring me to be better person everyday. While my mother is a discipline and perfectionist person. She is always tell me to do everything correctly and on time. My parents have 4 childs, and I am number 3, I have 2 sisters and a brother. I graduated from Senior High School 2 Lumajang, and it is favorite school in my town. 

I have an idea become a lecturer or teacher in university someday. The reason I choose English Department are because I love English language and want to learn about English more and more and we can go everywhere because we can speak English fluently and clearly. And now, at Jember University I have a lot of friends from different cities, cultures, and languages. 

My favorite singers are Justin Bieber, Demi Lovato, One Direction, Justin Timberlake, and many more. But, I love Justin Bieber very much, because he is the most talented singer that I ever know. He is not only sing a song and dance very well but also plays many instruments such as piano, drum, guitar, saxophone, etc. 




I make a right choice becoming a BELIEBER


That is simple story about me. Thank you 

Start up your day with your sweetest smile